How Much Do Babies Cost? My First Year’s Actual Expenses

My Actual Expenses in the First Year

The table below includes an itemized expense log of what I spent in year 1 for my son. You can also find a visual list of my best baby finds here.

Estimated baby expenses (by category)

Below is a summary of the most common baby-related expenses you’ll deal with, sorted by category. For each section, I’ve included the following:

• USDA’s cost estimate, according to their cost of raising a child calculator
• The realistic cost estimate range that I think most people can reasonably expect to spend
• The amount I actually spent
• A list of the expenses that would fall into each category

An asterisk(*) is shown next to the biggest cost-eater per section that I think first-time parents should keep an eye on when budgeting for a baby.

My hospital bill was higher due to complications I had during delivery. This required extra services as well as an extended hospital stay to monitor the status of me and baby.

It’s pretty hard to say what will happen when you give birth, and complications are a lot more common than you’d think. Just try your best to stay healthy so you can maximize your chances of having a smooth and complication-free delivery.

How to save big on medical expenses: First and foremost, get insurance. According to my labor and delivery bill breakdown, the cost before insurance was over $13,000!

If you already have coverage, then look into health savings accounts or flex spending accounts that allow you to put a portion of your paycheck before taxes into a separate account that can only be used for health-related costs. This could easily save you hundreds or even thousands.

I didn’t compare my utilities prior to and after baby was born. The first number for the total I spent doesn’t take utilities into account, but the second number adjusts for an estimated $50 more month.

How to save big on housing expenses: Don’t upgrade more than you have to. Because we stayed in the same home and didn’t even create a separate nursery, our cost didn’t go up by much at all.

Since nursery furniture can get costly, make sure you’re making the most of your baby registry by adding it there. Even if it’s too expensive for one person to get, a group of people might chip in together to buy the item for you.

Ah, the classic question of which diapering system saves you more money. Read my take on the cloth vs disposable diaper debate, where I mention an obvious tip that most parents are overlooking. It was responsible for our family saving over $1000 in diaper supplies.

How to save big on clothing: Let friends and family who have older kids know that you’re expecting. Many of them will be glad to pass off old clothes to you. If you don’t have such a network, there are other ways to get free baby stuff. Or, make Craigslist and Facebook Marketplace your friend. There are so many great deals on loads of used clothing for dirt cheap.

The idea of feeding formula honestly didn’t cross my mind at all because I was so focused on learning how to breastfeed. But then baby was born and alas, I had low milk supply, baby had trouble latching, and formula became a very important part of our feeding routine.

How to save big on feeding: Be prepared for the possibility of needing formula, which I turned to when my son wasn’t taking to breastfeeding and my body wasn’t producing enough breast milk supply.

Sign up for formula programs to get free samples and coupons, which will help bring your formula cost down significantly. I signed up for both Similac and Enfamil. Each were pretty generous, and softened the blow to my bank account.

I technically included a $25 application fee for preschool when my son turns 4 since you need to get these things in ASAP to reserve a space for your child. We are fortunate that the grandparents on both sides are willing and able to look after our son so that we don’t have to pay for childcare.

Prices we were looking at for daycare were between $400-800 a month.

How to save big on childcare: This is less a money tip than overall healthy life balance tip. Really sit down and discuss options for childcare with your partner.

Not only should you take the financial aspect into consideration, but also the change in lifestyle, impacts on social life and your relationship as a couple, etc.

Get family involved if you and they are willing, save up vacation so you can take a day off each week to relieve the babysitter, or find other tips to save money for childcare.

I didn’t track how many extra car trips I made because of the baby. For the most part, the only new travel we did was to more doctor’s appointments. Most of the other times were to run errands we would have normally gone on even before the baby. We also didn’t upgrade our car or take any flights in that first year.

How to save big on transportation: Unless you’re getting a second car, upgrading the size of your car, or flying in a plane to visit anyone, it’s relatively easy to keep transportation costs down.

If you do fly, check if your little one can travel for free. Most companies won’t charge for baby, although some international airlines may only offer a reduced ticket price.

About a quarter of our spending here was for actual baby supplies, including some baby essentials and other extras, but the rest was on gifts for the friends and family who were so generous and loving to our son.

How to save big on miscellaneous expenses: Few, if any, entertainment and learning tools need to be purchased brand new. Acquire hand-me-downs from family and friends through word-of-mouth, or purchase secondhand.

Also, take care of those who take care of your kid. Knowing that you have those who are happy for you and want the best for your family is priceless.

Express your gratitude because being careful with your finances is not just about the money spent. It includes being grateful for the positive relationships and support networks that you have in your life too.

How much money should you have saved for a baby?

So let’s summarize the estimated budget ranges for each category we discussed above:

• Medical: $1500-4000
• Housing: $500-$3500
• Clothing: $100-$500
• Feeding: $200-$800
• Childcare: $0-$10,000
• Transportation: $500+
• Miscellaneous: $500-$1500

And the median of that range would be about $8750.00.

I’d consider this a realistic cost of raising a baby, which would cover the basics while leaving a cushion for some unexpected expenses and a few splurges.

How much does a baby cost per month on average

If we took that median figure of $8750.00 and divide it 12 months, that comes out to about $750.00 per month on average.

But remember, your costs will be highest at the beginning since you’ll need to have some things in place prior to baby’s arrival, plus that big fat hospital bill comes shortly after baby arrives home.

Aim to have at least $5,000 saved up by the time baby arrives, although the more you have, of course, the better shape you’ll be in.

Conclusion

How much does it cost to raise a baby? As discussed in this article, the short answer would be about $8,750 in the first year. Since the bulk of it will be spent at the beginning, having about $5,000 saved up before baby arrives would be a great start.

But if you want to keep the cost of raising a child low, stay conservative with your spending with the helpful tips above and keep your bank account as healthy as your little one during that first year.

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